Well lets see by being a passive person , i can sit here and think about just more then one thing to do today if i were brave. But the one thing i would do today if i were brave would stand up for myself the whole entire day, to the people i come into contact everyday, and the people in my life, i think i would do it in a sense of past situations where i would wish i wasnt so passive or i was scared to say what i really wanted to say, even sometimes wanting to scream on the top of my lungs what my true blunt opinion is . I think being passive, keeps alot of things bottled up that you wish you could have that bravery that aggressive personalities have. One specific situation that i would do if i were brave is state my opinion to a certain person and finally saying if you dont like what i think or if you completely dont want to accept me for me then, goodbye and its your loss.I am a very strong opinionated person but i seem to lack and chicken out at the moment when i am confronted at the moment and i always kick myself and knowingly stay quite and become passive . Its like when strong aggressive personsalities challenge me i become this other weak, quite person, when i am strong, loud and very opinionnated person. I dont know how that works, but it does. As i get a little bit older i can see that part of my personality really wants to shine out but it cant completely come out yet. But i guess thats the whole part of growing,slowly but shirley maturing and knowing exactly what you want and taking no for an answer. So for all the times, where ive been quite,frustrated, and regreting for not taking charge and saying what i really think and not thinking of what others think and if they will take it wrong, or have there feeling hurt, and fearing i could lose a certain relationship with a person for stating what i truly think. It would be something that would relieve everything that i had bottled up for years. To me it would be the bravest thing i would do in my life and i know in reality i could not obtain that much bravery in a day. I would have plenty of people very upset, but i hope to be able to obtain that bravery little by little so that i can have that passive fearful side of me go away in the long run.
what would i do today if i were brave..
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